The Myth of the fixed path" - Lets see where this goes...
- Apr 21
- 3 min read
Updated: 2 days ago

From a fairly young age, I always felt the need to choose a direction. A kind of path.
A version of myself that made the most sense to whatever situation I found myself in. We moved around more than most, so adapting was a key skill I had to learn early.
And once I chose that direction - once I rearranged my room to suit me, I set my personal sails to suit the local wind, the expectation was simple: stick with it, Vanessa.
There was a comfort in that idea. One that I definitely brought from adolescence to adulthood. A kind of invisible structure that told me if I just keep going - keep moving forward, keep making decisions that made sense, everything would eventually fall into place.



